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You Don’t Have to Earn Secure Connection
For so many of us, love came with rules. We were taught—directly or indirectly—that connection had to be earned. That we needed…
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In The Eye of Becoming
There’s been so much about me that’s been questioned—by others, by God, by myself. And truthfully, I don’t even know what I’m…
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God, is this me becoming?
There’s a point in your growth where everything starts to feel quiet—but not peaceful. More like… paused. Like God is asking you…
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Is It Purpose, or Just Performance?
Let’s ask something real: Is your “purpose” actually serving others? Or is it just helping you feel like you matter? Before you…
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The Cloud Wasn’t Mine
You ever feel a weight lift the second you walk away from someone? Not after a fight. Not after closure. Just… the…
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When I Was Her
There’s something about being a young woman that no one prepares you for. Not the way it actually feels. The way your…
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Connection at First Conversation
There is no such thing as coincidence. One of the sayings I quote most is: “Eventually, everything connects.” It’s indescribable—the moment you…
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When Depth Becomes a Box
I feel everything deeply. That’s not new. What is new, though, is realizing how much I crave that depth even when it…
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The Ones We Leave to Find Ourselves
It’s always been hard for me to stand on my own feelings. I’d push mine aside for peace, for presence, for perfection.…
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What Is Limerence? The Psychology Behind Obsessive Attraction
There’s something hauntingly beautiful about limerence. The way it sneaks in, like smoke through the cracks. It feels like a slow fall…