the cure to loneliness is to be alone.
the idea of loneliness is synonymous for a feeling of lack.
there’s a difference between longing and lonely.
to long, to crave, to wish for.
absolutely. we all have dreams & desires.
but to be lonely is to be missing.
lonely implies you stand alone which is quite literally impossible. the sentence alone is a contradiction. you can’t be alone if you have you.
we don’t emphasize that enough. we hold the all the knowledge of us.
we are the beholder of all our secrets, we know how we want someone else to show up for us, why don’t we show up for ourselves instead? why do we give ourselves to other people on our broken or loneliness and expect them to heal or mend us when it is impossible.
we can only do that bc we are the only ones that are us. that knows the intricacies of our existence and the weight our emotions and feels the heat of our light.
no one else can feel those things. it is impossible to find it in anything or anyone else.
the loneliness that is felt can only be cured with sitting and walking besides ourselves.
holding our own hand, our hearts.
the things we try and use as answers to all our questions and solutions to our fears is merely a placebo effect. a comfort in our crashing and remedy for our pain. a easier solution and a comfortable delusion. a distraction pulling us away from real action. cause without that person or that thing, alone is hell. they got so comfortable pretending so well they forgot they were still present on earth as well. there’s things that need to be done. they are deserving of healing.
they forget they’re not some fucked up being.
we can’t punish them or ourselves for ways they tried to repair when they felt broken. no matter how obsured, in the instances we don’t understand, we forget that people are creatures that are here, trying to statisfy this imaginary idea of peace and what it looks like within.
some parts of us may be fragmented, but us as beings are never truly broken.
we are all in someway, hurting.
i just hope we as people, a society, a community, as entities, we can all understand the answer are all within us & Him.
we learn to give grace to those in situations no matter how different then the ones we’ve been in.
offer love and understanding. remind anyone you can of their light, one day you never know what your words can do to spark their mind.
help them recognize their light and they’ll see that what was in that person, substance, or structure was never truly light, it was blocking them from feeling their warmth on the inside.
